The Beautiful Young African Woman And The Old White Lover-A Sickening Trend?
Have you taken a quiet stroll through the priced restaurants in town on a
good day or night? Have you been to the Slipway/Jagwani beach recently with your friends or family? Does this sound familiar?
Has anyone noticed the rising sickening trend Tanzanian women trying
to bag a white old man to seal their status’ as societal ‘it women’?Most
of whom are the most gorgeous ladies among their peers. Well I have
noticed and wonder how they think low enough to cultivate this sort of
idea and subsequently put it into practice.
I remember having a drink with my friend at ‘Medittaraneo’ and overhearing
two ladies speaking behind me about white men. One of them was
complaining about how uncomfortable she was in the midst of so many
white men and her friend replied how happy she was because she liked to
be checked out by white men. She said “I like places where there are a
lot of white men because they have the money you know !!”
I almost rudely interrupted their conversation to school her. Tanzanian
women, who are ignorant enough to think some of these white men actually
give a damn about you, let me give you a rude awakening. Some of the white men around only want one thing from you and that is to
use you as sexual toys. Their opinions about you haven’t changed since
slavery days. You are their little slave they keep in the corner
away from the eyes of the world.
Even when they marry you, it’s mostly because they want to make their
business dealings easier in Tanzania or they keep you here in a 2 bedroom
apartment and come visit every now and then for maybe 2 weeks a year.And send you some petty dollars once in awhile which changes for enough Shillings to compensate you while you toil away at the embassy waiting for a
visa to his country that will never come.
Why? Have you asked yourself? The answer is simple. You will never be
the ‘leading lady’. Ask your husband why you haven’t gotten a visa to
even go visit him after you have been trying for 5/6 years?
Get some sense into your heads! You are not a part of his real life! His
real life is out there. And you are out here!! It hurts very badly when
I hear even educated women set their sights on landing a white
man. Wake up! Most don’t care about you at all!
I need more African women to wise up and stop thinking a white man is
an end to all their financial woes. Many Tanzanian men are even better
off! Fact!!
I know several ladies who have married white men and later regretted it
badly. Who told you there are no good Tanzanian men? The right Tanzanian
man will treat you with respect and give you the right status. Why
choose to be a holiday toy? This is my observation, what has been your
observation or experience?
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Quit That Mental Slavery of Wanting to Marry that Old White Man
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People should marry for love, not money, nor perceived prestige. If a young, Tanzanian woman genuinely loves an older, white man then they should be together. But it is important to know that that is true love. They should test their love and make sure they both love each other before getting married. The same is true for everyone getting married, yes?
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